Laugh-out-loud, no-nonsense relationship advice from Loni Love-comedian and co-host of THE TRUE about Fox and BET-reminding women that putting yourself first is the path toward lasting love.

A normal panelist on E!’s top-rated Chelsea Recently and a staple on Dr. Drew’s Loveline, audiences first fell deeply in love with Loni for her relatable make of sociable commentary and exclusive take on love, sex, and dating. Now mainly because co-host of the brand new daytime talk display THE TRUE, Loni doles away romantic advice to an on the subject of Like Him Or Keep Him, But Don’t Get Stuck With the Tab: Hilarious Tips for Real Ladies audience of large numbers every day. Love Him or Leave Him, But Don’t Get Stuck with the Tabs offers down-to-earth knowledge and guidance for single women, girlfriends, wives, baby mamas, and the chick on the side (because she needs advice, as well).

In a great Q&A format filled with hilarious been there-done that tales, Loni delivers answers to women’s most pressing relationship questions-about love, sex, fidelity, funds, in-laws, and everything in between. In the long run, she says, you might stick to him, you may bail out, but don’t ever be left “trapped with the tab,” or allowing yourself be studied advantage of. Her message is consistent throughout: If females make themselves the priority, everything else will fall into place. “It’s something I think women need to hear over and over again,” she says. “Like multiple orgasms.”