When did your sexual experiences begin? Are you having more digital sex than actual sex? Is it possible to have an excessive amount of or not enough sex? What exactly is ‘regular’?

Bestselling author and leading sex therapist, Pamela Stephenson-Connolly takes us with an eye-opening trip to explode the myths and answer the embarrassing queries we’ve always wanted to ask about sex and our insatiable appetite for it.

Drawing on a huge selection of intimate interviews with ordinary folks of all age groups, appetites and backgrounds, about Having sex Life: How Our Sexual Encounters and Encounters Specify Who We Are Stephenson-Connolly unveils how the ever-present sexual drive in each of us evolves throughout our lives, from our first a few months in the womb up right until our nineties. She also implies that there is absolutely no such matter as ‘normal’ which anything goes with regards to sex as long as it is secure, sane and consensual. The result is an intimate family portrait of our sexual selves that dispels the common myths, guilt and mystery encircling sex and our sexual urges.

Hugely informative, generally entertaining and at times shocking, that is arguably one of the most enlightening books in sex ever published.