The title of this book: Can I See THE HANDS, refers to among the key outcomes of this book-being in a position to tell if people want to cause us harm. To place it very merely, if you can discover someone’s hands and they’re not really concealing them, holding a tool or setting to hit you, one’s degrees of trust and self-confidence can increase. This simple example can provide as a reminder to all of us in many of the complex moments we must cope with, and challenging decisions we have to make, in everyday living.