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Grounded in cutting-edge neuroscience and attachment theory, Caring Like You Mean It shares a successful four-step method of make use of emotional mindfulness to liberate from old practices, befriend your emotional encounter, and develop fresh ways of relating. The capability for deep, loving connections is usually inside most of us, waiting to come out. By exercising the technology behind loving like you mean it, your romantic relationships can be fuller and richer than you ever imagined.