Within this motivational handbook-both a company how-to and self-help guide-the NY Times bestselling writer of Dot Complicated takes on the fallacy from the ‘well-balanced’ life, arguing that the key to success is understanding how to be well-lopsided.

Work. Rest. Fitness. Family. Close friends. Pick Three.

Within an increasingly demanding world, we have been told that people can do everything-maintain friendships, devote ourselves to function, spend time with family, stay match, and get enough sleep. We simply need to find out about Pick and choose Three: You Can Have It All (NOT EACH DAY) to balance it all. Randi Zuckerberg doesn’t have confidence in getting well-balanced. We can not do it all each day, she contends, and trying to do so just leaves us discouraged and feeling inadequate. But we can be successful if we Choose Three.

Randi first introduced the concept of Pick out Three within a tweet-‘The Entrepreneur’s Dilemma’-that went viral. Now, in this book, she expands on her behalf beliefs and inspires others to check out her business lead. From business owners to professionals, busy parents to students, Randi can help everyone figure out how to reject the unrealistic burden of balance and enjoy achievement in their own lives-by picking the most important areas to spotlight in any provided day.

This practical handbook includes stories from Randi’s career learning that there’s no such thing as a perfect balance-as well as insights and examples from other professionals at the top of the biggest businesses in Silicon Valley, new moms looking for permission to spotlight family, and recent graduates convinced they should have it all under control, including Arianna Huffington, Reshma Saujani, Laurie Hernandez, and Brad Takei. We can’t own it all each day, and that’s alright, Randi reminds us. Pick Three is certainly her much-needed instruction to learning to embrace the well-lopsided life.